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Thursday, January 14, 2010

blame game!

The other day I was debating with my friends on where to go over the weekend for outing and believe me it was like a war! There were only four people and any place would have been absolutely fine with each one of us, but still somehow we had to argue. Then one of us (who had the car) got angry and rest of us had to give up to make sure we get to travel in the car!
And now thinking about it, I am left wondering if managing a group of four is like this, what it must be like to run a country! Crores of people, thousands of political parties, hundreds of leaders and one government- can u imagine thinking about everyone’s emotions and demands? I can just heave a sigh at the mere thought of it.
Suppose government is working on reducing the food price and thinking about taking the stimulus out of market- at the same time, opposition questions each and every move of it; some fellow goes on hunger strike asking for a new state and his so called followers create havoc in the mother state; there is an airplane/train crash in another state; an old politician comes under CBI scanner for a scam of some hundred crore rupees; a party leader in some state vandalizes everything from buses to multiplexes in the name of protecting ‘his’ state’s people; Maoists/ terrorists abduct some innocent people in some state asking government to release their savage brothers in return; internal party strife; sanitary issues in the country; farmer suicides; water and power shortages; corruption; inflation; educational crisis; communal riots; maintaining good GDP rate; cricket versus hockey; natural calamities and this is not all! Relations with other countries have to be maintained by signing different security pacts, getting fuel, acting on climate change, managing import-export etc etc etc.
I agree that this is the very reason we vote and elect a government, so that they overcome all the abovementioned hurdles and run the country smoothly-that’s their job! But I would also say that think twice before blaming it all on the government. Ask yourself some questions- Don’t we get tempted to throw something on roads while traveling in a car/train/local? Don’t we think of getting the registration of house/car faster by shelling out 100-200 bucks ‘extra’? Don’t we try to pacify the traffic police by saying ‘aapas me sambhalte hain na’? How many times have we thought of going to consumer forum for getting duped by a shopkeeper for his low quality products or by a travel agency for its third class service? Forget everything and just think how many times we have voted since we turned 18!
So, I would say while government is trying to do its job, we also have lot of things to do from our side than simply cribbing!

Wednesday, January 6, 2010

A letter:From theism to agnosticism!

I have many things on mind and I want somebody to answer them.


First and foremost, do you get everything you ask for from God?

If YES, then what is the secret that all your prayers are answered? Is there something we need to do? We d‘mannat and fasts to fulfill our wishes, but I really really think is God so objective that if we do one fast then he will grant us one wish, next time next mannat of 2 kilo of laddoos and we get other wish granted. He is ‘the God’, how can he do give-and-take? I still havn’t got the entire reason behind fasting. Please tell me if you know it. Or some book where I can find this.

If NO, then why do you still pray? Didn’t you get angry withGod?

Now, I will tell you my situation. I was a hardcore theist till sometime back, I think I still am; but an event has kinda shattered my faith. One of my best friend's sister just passed away. Maybe, you will think it’s stupid of me to cry about it so much, but I really think it’s unfair on God’s part to do this. I understand that everybody has his/her own time in this world and has to go when that time comes, but if everything is so decided then why pray? When I heard the news of her getting hurt, I went straight to the temple and asked God for her recovery and said if she was recovered, I would go to Shirdi for darshan. Now, imagine me doing this for my friend’s sister, then her close relatives must have had so many mannats and prayers. She didn’t have to leave this world so early. Still it happened!

After this, its not that I don’t believe in God, I know that He is there, but I am angry with him. I don’t want to ask him for anything. I am not the same old person now. Believe in God- do fasting- keep asking for something-no matter if wish is fulfilled or not still ask next time. I don’t know whether I am right or wrong, but I seek many answers.